Your friends and family are an extension of you.
They have made you the person you are today through experiences, love, understanding and a lifetime of memories.
When embarking on a new relationship it is important that your new partner gets along with those you are close to and love.
Often when all the people you care about do not approve of a partner or do not get a long with him/ her it can be a red flag. Especially if they have your best interests at heart.
The same way if your partner does not ‘approve’ of your friends and family, spending time with them causes conflict or are over critical of the people you love that can also be a red flag that needs to be addressed sooner rather than later.
the green flags that bring the most joy and comfort is when they bring people together and make you feel loved and safe.
When people you love, respect other people you love without feeling insecure or trying to mark their territory that is a beautiful green flag. Embrace it with open arms.
It gives you a sense of peace knowing that the people you love and are a part of you are respected by your partner who you love too.
Disrespect can be the start of unnecessary tension and stress in your life as you become the middle person trying to keep the peace.
It is never easy choosing between the people you love and you should never have to do that.
Even if people do not get along they can be respectful out of respect and love for you.
It is equally important to reciprocate the same for people we love and value.
reflect. love. heal always
Brown Girl N