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January 23, 2020January 23, 2020 musingsofbrowngirls

Relationship Red Flags to watch out for 10: Abusive traits part 1. BGR

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Lessons a Heartbreak can teach you 4: Rediscover Yourself! BGR

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Lessons a Heartbreak can teach you 2: Acceptance is the first step to healing! BGR

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We’re already on part 5 of our #greenflag series “They are able to empathise with you” by Brown Girl R. Sometimes being able to focus on the #positive allows us to see just how much we are blessed with. And this is so true with our #relationship. You will always go through good as well as bad times but if you acknowledge all the green flags they come with you’ll end up seeing the beauty of the relationship you have. “Healthy conversations with disputes is always a good thing but the intention of having a conversation should never be for sake of starting a fight. Even if they do not understand what you are going through they will take the time to listen to how you feel. They will also make the effort to explain where they have realised they were wrong statements like ‘I didn’t know this made you feel a certain way, I will make an effort not to do say/ do it again’ is genuine. They will make the effort not to do or say what is hurtful for you even if they don’t think it is.” Read more by clicking on the link above 👆. . . . . . . #embracinggreenflags #relationshipgreenflags #relationadvice #relationshipgoals #empathy #empathymatters #thursdaymotivation #thursdaythoughts #illustration #moderncalligraphy #handlettering #handwriting #illustration #dailymotivation #dailyinspiration #dailyquotes #tedtalks #huffpostgram #wordpress #wordporn

New post up on the blog link in the bio! Tag somene below that you appreciate and holds up green flags for you! "When someone cares about you (really cares about you) and has invested time and effort into your relationship in a healthy balanced way, they know you intimately. They know the small tell signs of when you feel a certain way without explicitly having to express it. The small gestures you might make if you are uncomfortable, if you’re not talking as much because something is on your mind or even the different looks you give and what they mean. When someone makes the effort to understand your every smile and can distinguish the difference between a real smile and a forced one that can truly be a beautiful thing." To continue reading head over to www.musingsofbrowngirls.com . . . . . . . . . . . #newblog #blogger #blogpost #browngirlblogger #browngirls #womenwhowrite #artlove #quotes #motivational #friendship #bulletjournal #bffgoals #bulletjournalideas #journal #moderncalligraphy #calligraphy #handlettering #bujo #inspirationalquotes #greenflags #healthyrelationships #healthyboundaries #emotionalboundaries #consistencyiskey #love #reflect #heal #repair #newadventures

Third part of our Green flag series has been posted by Brown Girl R “They make you laugh”. How important is #senseofhumour to you? “Someone who finds humour at the expense of others by belittling them, mocking them and always being the cynic is something we should all be aware of as a major red flag. Rather it’s the openness and confidence someone has that allows them to be comfortable enough to be able to laugh at situations they end up in. To be able to make jokes around and of themselves. They are confident with who they are so they don’t rely on false pretenses to make an impression on you. If they are clumsy, have a dry sense of humour or if they always end up on the wrong side of a situation but see the funny side of it they will share that with you willingly. Because through their sense of humour they are allowing themselves to be vulnerable, risking a little of themselves that others may or may not get.” Read more by clicking on the link above 👆. . . . . . . . . #greenflag #relationshipgoals #relationshipquotes #relationships #laugh #beinghappy #love #lovelaughlive #dailymotivation #dailyinspiration

What are you looking forward to most this month? (Raise your hands if you're glad we made it through January!) Every month brings with it new blessings and challenges. Another chance to do better. A time to reflect, learn and grow. But more importantly a time to accept, love yourself and forgive. We hope you have an amazing February and achieve things beyond your imagination. reflect. love. heal Nida and Roohi Xxx . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . #wemadeit #goodbyejanuary #hellofebruary #newgoals #reflect #challenge #forgive #lovequotes #bulletjournalquote #bulletjournalideas #bulletjournal #moderncalligraphy #calligraphy #quote #bulletjournalideas #bujo #handlettering #doodle #bujoideas #heartwreath #heart #love #newbeginnings #blog #longestjanuaryever #february

Comment below what you consider the most important relationship green flag! New blog up link in the bio! "Green flags to embrace: 2. They make small but consistent gestures. BGN If you have experienced a lot of #redflags in the past, it can be particularly challenging to be aware of and trust green flags. This can be because you may have grown up around confusing and detrimental behaviour traits or if your experiences of red flags have left you traumatised, hurt or in need of #healing. You might even be at a point where you have a hard time trusting people and identifying what healthy relationships look like and therefore green flags can be quite difficult to identify and embrace. Green flags highlight healthy traits and relationships or friendships that have a positive effect on your life and well-being. They indicate and guide us to the good traits in people we can trust. It is only when we are able to identify and trust these green flags and sit around them at ease are we able to then be more in tune with, and aware of red flags that need to be addressed head on!" To find out more about red and green flags that might be affecting you right now and to continue reading head over to www.musingsofbrowngirls.com! Reflect. Love. Heal always Brown Girl N Xxx . . . . . . . . . . . . #positivethinking #relationships #growing #blogpost #browngirlblogger #trauma #strongwomen #strength #strongmom #strongmentality #struggle #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #narcissist #confidentlybeautiful #consistency #consistencyiskey #healthy #healthyrelationships #strongertogether #trustyourintuition #coach #mindfulcoach #selfworth #selfhelp #selfhelptips #bulletjournalquote #quote

We really hope you all enjoyed reading our red flag series, was there anything else you would’ve added as your red flag? Moving on for our new series we are now focusing on green flags. Attributes and values which are sometimes overlooked but very important in establishing a strong foundation for any relationship. The first part “They are a good friend” has just been posted by Brown Girl R. “Because there has been a lot of focus on red flags, due to their destructive nature which can sometimes leave us hurt and hopeless, we can lose sight of the blessings we have in those around us. We tend to overlook all the attributes that are valuable to us and our relationship that we should be appreciative of. Traits that can help us determine whether or not the people we have around us are beneficial to our lives, points we need to acknowledge and be grateful for and factors we need to instill in us to be a blessing and not a hindrance to others in our lives. Too often we hear the phrase ‘I’m so lucky I’ve been married to / I fell in love with my best friend’. But what we fail to see is that the basis of any relationship be it among siblings, between a parent and child or someone you have a relationship with, needs to begin with mutual friendship.” Read more by clicking on the link above 👆. . . . . . . . . . #greenflag #greenflags #recognisinggreenflags #relationshipgreenflags #relationshipgoals #relationshipadvice #goodfriends #havinggoodfriends #havinggoodfriendsisablessing #relationships #bujoinspiration #bujo #wordpress #wordpressblogger #huffpostgram #tedtalks #illustrations #love #loveyourself #bloggersunder1k #womenwhowrite #empowerment

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