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January 23, 2020January 23, 2020 musingsofbrowngirls

Relationship Red Flags to watch out for 10: Abusive traits part 1. BGR

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Seventh segment is up on our #greenflag series. “They are proud of and encourage your achievements” by Brown Girl R. It is so important to recognise that those that love us are our biggest cheerleaders and our successes are not intimidating rather something they themselves are proud of. “And during these times having the support, assistance and unbiased words of encouragement can make the world of a difference. Those that can support you do not need to understand what you are doing or even the reasons why, they just understand that what you are doing is important to you therefore it is important they support that. They are proud of the dedication you have, the commitment you give and offer their support in the best way they can.” . . . . . #greenflag #appreciationpost #appreciation #encouragement #encourage #relationshipgoals #relationshipadvice #relationshipgreenflags #lifecoach #lifeblogger #motivation #success #achieve #support #womenwhowrite #ukblogger #bloggerunder1k #ted #bujoweeklyspread

Comment below if you find it easier to identify red 🚩or green flags in a relationship! Green flags to embrace 6: You can be yourself around them. BGN It can take time and conscious effort to learn to love the skin you are in, be your authentic self and be true to yourself. And this is just for you! As you are growing and working on your confidence and self-esteem, you may mirror others likes and accept others opinions just to fit in or avoid upsetting someone. When you are able to accept the parts of you that make you uniquely you, you feel more free and able to embrace life and the things that bring you joy. If someone that cares about you can make you feel at ease around them but more importantly at ease with yourself that is someone who is waving the green flag of true acceptance without judgement. reflect. love. heal always Brown Girl N To continue reading head over to www.musingsofbrowngirls.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . #blogger #blogpost #browngirlblogger #newblog #newblogger #greenflags #positivethinking #relationships #healthyrelationships #selfconfidence #selfacceptance #nobounds #confidentlybeautiful #womenwhowrite #artlovers #doodle #bujoideas #bulletjournal #moderncalligraphy #calligraphy #quote #bulletjournalideas #handlettering #redflags #toxicpeople #love

We’re already on part 5 of our #greenflag series “They are able to empathise with you” by Brown Girl R. Sometimes being able to focus on the #positive allows us to see just how much we are blessed with. And this is so true with our #relationship. You will always go through good as well as bad times but if you acknowledge all the green flags they come with you’ll end up seeing the beauty of the relationship you have. “Healthy conversations with disputes is always a good thing but the intention of having a conversation should never be for sake of starting a fight. Even if they do not understand what you are going through they will take the time to listen to how you feel. They will also make the effort to explain where they have realised they were wrong statements like ‘I didn’t know this made you feel a certain way, I will make an effort not to do say/ do it again’ is genuine. They will make the effort not to do or say what is hurtful for you even if they don’t think it is.” Read more by clicking on the link above 👆. . . . . . . #embracinggreenflags #relationshipgreenflags #relationadvice #relationshipgoals #empathy #empathymatters #thursdaymotivation #thursdaythoughts #illustration #moderncalligraphy #handlettering #handwriting #illustration #dailymotivation #dailyinspiration #dailyquotes #tedtalks #huffpostgram #wordpress #wordporn

New post up on the blog link in the bio! Tag somene below that you appreciate and holds up green flags for you! "When someone cares about you (really cares about you) and has invested time and effort into your relationship in a healthy balanced way, they know you intimately. They know the small tell signs of when you feel a certain way without explicitly having to express it. The small gestures you might make if you are uncomfortable, if you’re not talking as much because something is on your mind or even the different looks you give and what they mean. When someone makes the effort to understand your every smile and can distinguish the difference between a real smile and a forced one that can truly be a beautiful thing." To continue reading head over to www.musingsofbrowngirls.com . . . . . . . . . . . #newblog #blogger #blogpost #browngirlblogger #browngirls #womenwhowrite #artlove #quotes #motivational #friendship #bulletjournal #bffgoals #bulletjournalideas #journal #moderncalligraphy #calligraphy #handlettering #bujo #inspirationalquotes #greenflags #healthyrelationships #healthyboundaries #emotionalboundaries #consistencyiskey #love #reflect #heal #repair #newadventures

Third part of our Green flag series has been posted by Brown Girl R “They make you laugh”. How important is #senseofhumour to you? “Someone who finds humour at the expense of others by belittling them, mocking them and always being the cynic is something we should all be aware of as a major red flag. Rather it’s the openness and confidence someone has that allows them to be comfortable enough to be able to laugh at situations they end up in. To be able to make jokes around and of themselves. They are confident with who they are so they don’t rely on false pretenses to make an impression on you. If they are clumsy, have a dry sense of humour or if they always end up on the wrong side of a situation but see the funny side of it they will share that with you willingly. Because through their sense of humour they are allowing themselves to be vulnerable, risking a little of themselves that others may or may not get.” Read more by clicking on the link above 👆. . . . . . . . . #greenflag #relationshipgoals #relationshipquotes #relationships #laugh #beinghappy #love #lovelaughlive #dailymotivation #dailyinspiration

What are you looking forward to most this month? (Raise your hands if you're glad we made it through January!) Every month brings with it new blessings and challenges. Another chance to do better. A time to reflect, learn and grow. But more importantly a time to accept, love yourself and forgive. We hope you have an amazing February and achieve things beyond your imagination. reflect. love. heal Nida and Roohi Xxx . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . #wemadeit #goodbyejanuary #hellofebruary #newgoals #reflect #challenge #forgive #lovequotes #bulletjournalquote #bulletjournalideas #bulletjournal #moderncalligraphy #calligraphy #quote #bulletjournalideas #bujo #handlettering #doodle #bujoideas #heartwreath #heart #love #newbeginnings #blog #longestjanuaryever #february

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