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May 21, 2019May 24, 2019 musingsofbrowngirls

5 Ways to Help you Forgive Yourself the MBG way – BGR

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Watch out for two new posts every week from Brown Girl N and Brown Girl R. In this weeks latest post ‘5 things to avoid on your journey to self love’ Brown Girl R explores detrimental factors which can stop you or hinder your potential growth towards self love. “Because no, you cannot remove every toxic person in your life but you can step away from their toxicity. Avoid conversations where you know arguments are involved, and if you want to take the adulting one step further, let the person know that you are both going to have to agree to disagree.” What do you think are important factors to avoid on your self love journey? . . . . . . . . #putyourselffirst #writerscommunity #bloggersofinstagram #brownbloggers #writersofinstagram #blogger #ukblogger #bloggerunder1k #toxicpeople #toxicrelationships #toxicfamily #toxicfriends #toxicity #selfcare #selflove #sayno #arguments #dontgiveup #dontgivein #growingupbrownskin #growthmindset #sunday #bujo #moderncalligraphy #calligraphy
Have you checked out the new blogs of the week? Comment below if you have ever pretended you are okay when you're not. "How to stop pretending you're okay when you're not! (Break the cycle!) by BGN is up now, go have a read if you haven't already! "The only way to grow from difficult situations and feelings is to navigate through them, validate them and really try to get to the root cause of why you feel the way you do. Are you reliving past hurt and trauma? Has a situation triggered other emotions? Have you reopened wounds you haven't fully dealt with? Whatever it might be do not sweep your feelings under a carpet or try to declutter by pushing them into a cupboard that is already overflowing. Because when it all gets too much and you feel like you are upset about "everything" it is much harder to deal with them, or turn to someone for help because you don't even know where to start!" . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . #blogger #blogpost #browngirlblogger #browngirls #bulletjournal #moderncalligraphy #calligraphy #quote #healing #bulletjournalideas #bujo #feelings #bffgoals #relationships #anxiety #stress #pretending #itsokay #sad #draw #drawing #trees #leaves #summer #wounds #ifmywoundswerevisible #emotions #doodles
New blog by Brown Girl R. posted yesterday ‘5 things to avoid on your journey to self love’ What do you need to avoid in order to not compromise the self love you have for yourself? Many times you are only needed for what can contribute to someone else’s life but “what you bring to the table shouldn't be the only purpose of your inclusion to other peoples' life.” Read more by clicking on the link above 👆. . . . . . . . . . . . #putyourselffirst #writerscommunity #bloggersofinstagram #brownbloggers #writersofinstagram #lifecoach #lifequotes #bloggerunder1k #bujo #newbujo #moderncalligraphy #calligraphy #doodle #flowerdoodle #dailyquotes #fridaymood #motivationalquotes #strength #loveyourself #selflove #selfcare #selflovejourney #writersofinstagram #doodlesofinstagram
New day new blog, posted by Brown Girl R. ‘5 things to avoid on your journey to self love’. “Sometimes I wish that I had recognised and understood the importance of self-love earlier on, but then maybe the hard lessons I have learned in life may not be as clear as they are now. Maybe this was the designated path for me so that I am able to teach and show my children self-love the right way much earlier on, and teach them the best way I can as I had to go through a great deal of unlearning before starting on this path. Self-love isn't an end goal so maybe its better to be late getting on the bus than never standing at the stop in the first place!” Read more by clicking on the link above 👆. . . . . . . . . . #putyourselffirst #writerscommunity #bloggersofinstagram #brownbloggers #writersofinstagram #lookwithin #loveyourself #selflove #selfcare #motivation #positivevibes #positivity #youcomefirst #beingused #avoiddrama #avoidtoxicpeople #toxicity #toxicpeople #bloggeruk #bloggerunder1k #bujo #newbujo
New blog up on the website! (This one is really close to my heart) "How to stop pretending you're okay when you're not" by Brown Girl N. Go check it out and leave it some love! "Always remember you are capable to deal with every difficulty and curveball life throws at you. You are resilient and strong and worthy of the best. Change is inevitable and the most growth comes from being out of your comfort zone. Remember without change you could be stuck in the same unhappy situation for another year, five years or even another ten. The thing you will grieve for the most is loss of time being in a situation that was far from what you made it out to be. Time is priceless and your life is precious. Believe that and embrace change with open arms. Remember that it is ok to address your struggle and ask for help. Don’t try to be a superhuman and do it all yourself. Talk if you need to. Invite people around if your lonely. Let people know you are struggling if you are. Be yourself in every moment of every situation. You don’t have to be strong for others and it ok to allow others to be strong for you too sometimes." To read more head over to www.musingsofbrowngirls.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . #blogger #blogpost #browngirlblogger #browngirlblog #newblog #newblogger #blogpost #pretending #lies #humpday #happyhumpday #anxiety #anxietyrelief #fear #emotions #feelings #motivation #change #changes #bffgoals #relationships #bulletjournal #bulletjournalideas #journal #moderncalligraphy #calligraphy #bujo #bujoideas #flowers #draw
New blog up on the website! (This one is really close to my heart) "How to stop pretending you're okay when you're not" by Brown Girl N. Go check it out and leave it some love! Link in the bio! "Final thoughts: Remember struggles in life are inevitable and going through challenges and heartaches, let downs and hardships make you who you are. They help you grow, shape the person you are, give you wisdom beyond any formal education. The biggest disservice you can do to yourself and your growth is pretend you are happy when you’re not to give others a false perception of who you are and what you are going through. No one needs to know the details of your life intimately. But the judgement of others should also not hold you back from making the right decisions for you." Read the full blog on www.musingsofbrowngirls.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . #newblog #blogger #blogpost #browngirlblogger #browngirlsblog #bulletjournal #bulletjournalideas #journal #bujo #doodles #drawings #draw #bunting #honesty #pretending #fear #relationship #judgement #colours #newblogger #selfhelptips #tips #relationshipgoals #love #reflect #heal #anxiety #overwhelmed #priorities #real

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